The Truth is Underestimated

I have been crazy busy with housework, kids, and running a business. My oldest started first grade this week at a new school. She seems to be enjoying it. She comes home everyday and tells me how many new friends she made and shows me her classwork; I am so proud of her. My youngest is into everything she has learned to pull herself up onto things so I have been busy crawling around the house making sure she can't get hold of anything dangerous. My business is flourishing and I couldn't be more satisfied with it right now.

Before I forget; My husband ran into that homewreckers step mother over the weekend. The step mother asks my husband if he and Nikki had an affair. My husband admitted the affair to her. (Step one honesty). Then she asks him if he wondered who Nikki's son belongs to. My husband tells her that he has wondered because the time frame was so close but he hasn't had the nerve to ask her. (Damn it we are stuck on step one). My husband came home and told me about his "run in" and the conversation. Maybe we can get to step two!

Well my husband has been working so much this week that I don't think I've seen him more than just a couple hours. We did have some time to talk earlier this week though. He told me to call a lawyer because he wants to adopt my oldest daughter! I couldn't believe it! I am soooo excited that he wants to do this. (My oldest was a little over a year old when my husband and I met. Her natural father ran out on us when she was 9 mo. old. and my husband has helped raise her). Our appointment is next week to start the paperwork. Wish us luck!

I must also brag on my husband for something he did. He has seemed to come to his senses and made it to step two! He posted a bulletin on myspace to the ex home wrecker. Here's what it said:

The truth!!

Why hide the truth? Sure it keeps people from getting hurt, or does it? And if you truly care about them than why did you do something that you had to lie about. Sure you can say that you care to much about them to hurt them and if you told the truth It could really hurt that person that you claim you really care about..but than again if you cared why cant you be honest with them? Or you care about that person you married but you think you care about someone else more and carry a 4 month relationship out with that person. But for what? Was it all in vain or did you find out what you wanted to know and run back to your spouse? And than had a kid. so whos is it? your lover or the spouse? And if it all comes out it could really hurt alot of people or get someone hurt. So you hide the truth. But is it worth it? Was all the fun you had worth it? Worth you lieing the rest of your life? Worth that little voice in the back of your head forever? Everytime you look at your child and think whos this kid belong to? So is it still worth the lieing? The lust you had? You cant just forget it ever happened.

Lee

When I read this, I was blown away. So the spelling is off, but here he is admitting everything and telling her that she needs to come clean to her husband. I was so happy when I seen this. Maybe just maybe he is ready to move on with our lives and grow stronger together. I like to think so at least.